Save The $25,000 Matchmaking Fee And Find The Love Of Your Life
Be Your Own Matchmaker
For 13 years, I matched thousands of couples as a professional matchmaker. Now I'm giving you all the insider secrets.
13 Years. Thousands of Couples Matched. 40,000 Subscribers. 4 Million Views
"Why Are You Still Single?"
As if it's a riddle, you haven't solved yet. As if you're not already trying. Messages go unanswered, dates fizzle, people disappear and you're still alone. Most people just keep dating the same way they always have, hoping for luck, repeating patterns, putting energy into the wrong people. Maybe you've stopped trying because it's easier than hoping again. Somewhere in the back of your mind you know it's supposed to be better than this. You're not failing. You've just been doing it without a plan, a map, or a strategy.
Here's What Nobody Tells You About
Professional Matchmaking...
We're not magic. We're not lucky. We don't have access to better people than you do. What we have is a method. A specific way of seeing people, asking the right questions, and knowing the difference between someone who's a maybe and someone worth pursuing.
I know what works, what doesn't, and why so many people get this wrong. I've seen the patterns, the mistakes, the blind spots that keeps smart, successful people stuck in bad dating cycles. I walked away from matchmaking because I realized something.
You don't need me to find you love. You need to know what I know.
This isn't dating advice. These are the secrets of a $25,000 to $300,000 per client industry.
And now they're yours.
Your New Matchmaker Mindset
You'll discover exactly who you are and what you truly need in a partner, so you can stop second-guessing yourself and getting in your own way.
You'll have a clear picture of your ideal partner, and know exactly where to find them, whether online, at events, or in the wild.
You'll show up having done the work - looking like yourself on your absolute best day, feeling settled, present, and completely ready for a fantastic first date.
You'll have conversations that feel easy and natural, where you can relax into the moment, while still getting a clear sense of who this person is and whether they're right for you.
You'll know how to follow up, handle rejection, without losing your footing, and recognize when something is worth pursuing instead of overthinking every move.
You'll finish this masterclass with a repeatable process you can use again and again until you find your person.
Curriculum
1
Your Welcome Meeting
Getting to Know Your Client:You
Are You Ready?
What’s Your Dating Energy?
Why Now?
Who Are You?
What's Important to You?
Your Strengths and Weaknesses
What You Want
Breaking Down the Walls
Relationship History
Your Top 3 Priorities and Deal Breakers
Screening Questions Worksheet*
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2
Who is Your Match?
Defining Your Ideal Partner
Physical Preferences
Shared Values
Age
Common Interests
Lifestyle Compatibility
Health and Fitness
Communication and EQ
Fiscal Responsibility
Family and Parenting
Sense of Humor
A Positive Attitude
What I Know Now Worksheet
3
Finding Your Match
The Smartest Way to Meet
Do Talk to Strangers
The Other 40/60 Rule
Online Dating and Apps
Pursuing Your Passions
Building Through Community
Single Specific & Structured Events
Identifying Opportunities
Meeting in the Wild
Stepping Outside Your Comfort Zone
Online Dating Strategy Checklist Worksheet
4
Before the First Date
Setting Yourself Up for Success
Emotional Readiness
Health & Grooming
Fashion and First Impressions
Positivity Before the Date
First Date Logistics
The Final Moments Before
The Stories I've Been Telling Myself Worksheet
5
The First Date
Everything For a Fabulous Date
The First 5 Minutes That Set the Tone
Mastering Conversation
What to Look For on Date One
Keeping on Track
Handling Awkward
The Grand Finale
What to Consider
Post-Date Checklist
Is This Actually a Match? Checklist
6
After the First Date
Reflecting and Deciding What's Next
Reflecting on How You Felt
The Art of Following Up
Communicating Interest
Handling Rejection Like a Pro
Keeping the Connection and Balance
Avoiding Fantasy
What to Say When It's a "No" Worksheet
*Includes 10 Action-Packed Worksheets and Checklists to Guide You Through Every Step.
and more...
Carey
Meet (and Have Coffee with)
I spent over a decade as a professional matchmaker and dating coach, curating nearly 1000 dates a year. I've hosted 950 videos on YouTube with nearly 4,000,000 views and 40,000 people who show up every week for honest conversations about dating. I've watched, smart, perfectly lovable people spin their wheels – not because they're broken, but because nobody ever handed them a process that actually works. And then they'd come back, same patterns, same mistakes, wondering why it wasn't working.
That's when I realized: you don't need me to find you love. You need what I know. And now it's yours.
When you enroll, you're invited to join a private Facebook community of others also learning to be their own matchmaker
Membership has its people.
Real People Real Results
Kind Words from New Matchmakers
"I was literally just doing research on hiring a matchmaker! I was at my wits end when this class came up. Be Your Own. Matchmaker helped me figure it out for myself. I finally get what matters in dating and what I was wasting my time on. At first I thought I was splurging on myself, but it turned out to be the smartest money I've ever spent. It saved me over $12,000!"
Maggie N
"I'm enjoying the course so far; it's already helped me get much clearer on who I am and what I'm after. I originally wondered if this course would be worth the cost... until I remembered that even the cheapest matchmaking services are several times more expensive. Thanks, Carey for "teaching me how to fish"
Jeffrey L
"I had to watch certain sections more than once and I know I can always watch again if I need to. But I'm dating in a way I never have been before and I'm having five times as many second dates. Those are results!"
Mitchell M
"I hadn't been on a date in over 40 years. I honestly didn't think a course like this was meant for someone like me. But I went through it and something shifted. I was excited to date again. Those are words I never thought I'd say, but I've been seeing a wonderful woman for four months now."
Paul M
"I had no idea what I was doing before this course. I spent so much time winging it and feeling completely lost. Taking this course was a total eye-opener. I never realized there was a process you could follow. Now I finally know what to do. I'm not guessing anymore and it feels incredible. If something doesn't go right, I can look back and see what really happened, instead of just wondering. It gives me something solid to lean on. I feel in control, excited and ready for the kind of love I've been waiting for!"
Nan B
"I've never paid for an online course before. I figured why pay when there's so much information available for free. But Be Your Own Matchmaker changed my mind completely. I learned more than I ever expected, and more importantly, I actually changed. Thank you, Carey"
Jennifer K
Do Something Different Today
You've been trying to figure this out alone for long enough. Be Your Own Matchmaker includes 52 learning modules that teach you how to break old patterns, understand who you are and what you need so you can move through the entire dating process with ease, and finally find your person.
We are already halfway through the year. If we get started together now we can set your dating life on a very different path before the December holiday season arrives.
Risk-free for 30 days
If you go through the course and decide it's not for you, simply email us within 30 days of purchase for a full refund. I want you to feel confident investing in yourself.
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FAQ
Why would I pay for this when you have hundreds of free videos on Youtube?
Great question – and I love that you've been watching. My channel is dating advice and real conversations about relationships. This is something entirely different. It's a fully mapped-out, start-to-finish process that takes you from "I have no idea where to even start" to "I know exactly what I'm looking for and how to get it." The channel gives you things to think about. This masterclass teaches you what to do. YouTube is insight. BYOM is transformation.
Absolutely. This is the same process I've used with matchmaking clients age 27 to 73. Whether you're dating after a divorce, after a loss, or getting out there for the very first time – this process works. As long as you can hit play on a video, you've got this completely under control.
Is this really for someone my age?
Will this actually help me meet someone?
Definitely. But if we're being honest, it also depends on you. If you want something different, you're going to have to do something differently. If you are willing to show up for yourself – I am very excited for you.